A Southern Belle
Updated: Oct 13
The Term 'Southern Belle' originated in the early 1800's to represent a young women of upper class. She was seen as quiet, feminine, Sweet and proper. Although the history is somewhat demining towards women, Thankfully we have the modern ability to take the good and leave the bad in the past. So if you love the idea of being a well presented lady with the essence of flowery feminine aura, Then this is the article for you.
Self Care
A southern Belle takes pride in her self care, With daily beauty rituals in the morning and evening. Not only does this benefit her presentation of a caring, clean and well taken care of Women. But it puts her first. She cares for herself before others. This allows her to take better care of others. A southern Belle Beauty / self care routine can include nightly bathing routines such as using lavender sugar scrubs, Homemade rosemary oils, Heatless curlers, self soothing massages and even homemade flower perfumes. This time is sacred, allowing her to reconnect with herself and process or prepare the day.
Check out some Southern bell Beauty recipe's!
Rose Honey Sugar Scrub
1 cup of white granulated sugar
1/2 cup of virgin olive oil
Rose essential oil
1/4 of dried rose petals
2 tablespoons of raw honey
In a medium bowl, mix the sugar, oil and honey until combined. Once the sugar is fully saturated fold in 5 - 8 drops of rose essential oil and dried rose petals.
Tip! : Use this scrub after shaving for soft, smooth skin. The sugar exfoliates dead skin cells whilst the honey acts as an antiseptic to fight ingrown hairs.
Seasonal Embrace!
Southern belle classically embraces the seasons, keeping her closet, home, activities and meals all dedicated to the season. A southern bell typically uses the softer more subdued colors of the season to decorate and represent. Think of sage greens and soft pinks during Spring. Butter yellow and baby blue during summer and so on...
Tip! : Use Pinterest to help navigate and brainstorm colors, styles and meals for each season. Try looking up "Vintage summer aesthetic" , "Traditional winter meals" soft spring aesthetic" and so on to define your personal southern bell style.
Create Comfort
The traditional Southern Belle was a excellent homemaker. Back in those days they didn't have a lot of options, But today we have the option. No shame in wanting to be a more 'Traditional women' and explore the art of homemaking.
The art of homemaking allows a person to become fluent in creating comfort. From delicious seasonal meals, To fantastic drinks and desserts. Being a hostess is all about creating a seamless experience for your guest. There is no need to create a experience that is above and beyond, unless you wish. But knowing how to whip up a batch of fresh cookies or the traditional ice tea is the perfect way to insure your guest know that you appreciate their presence and welcome them into your space.
On another note : Being a polite and thoughtful guest is just as important as being a great hostess. Never show up empty handed. Small gifts such as flowers, or snacks when visiting someone's home allows you to bring your warmth where ever you go.
Lemon Iced Tea Recipe
You'll need
2 black tea bags
500ml boiling water
1 tablespoon of Honey
Juice of one lemon
Ice Cubes
Lemon slices and mint for garnish
Allow black tea bags to soak in the boiling water for 5 - 10 mins, Mix in the honey whilst the liquid is hot. Remove the tea bags and allow the liquid to cool before adding lemon juice, Ice and garnish.
Cool down with this refreshing homemade Classic Lemon Iced Tea recipe! Made with black tea, lemon juice, and a touch of honey, it’s the perfect drink for hot summer days. Simple, natural, and easy to make at home
Practice the Arts
Being well rehearsed in a cart, subject or practice is not only impressive but massively benefitable to your mental and physical wellbeing. What are you naturally drawn to? What are your special interest/ Maybe you've always been drawn to the idea of playing the piano or painting, or even learning about great feminist literature. The possibilities are endless! Although some may see this as performative or a shameless attempt to be a show pony, Being someone who actually has interest is a lot more interesting during a conversation then someone who is only well versed in topics such as drama or personal righteous beliefs.
Most importantly ... Be the Kindness you wish to see in the world
A southern belle is a a face of proof that kindness still exist. She's kind to neighbors, animals, friends and family. Not to be confused with a pushover, But someone sweet and gentle to allow others and herself to feel seen, comforted and connected to the romantic and beautiful things in life.
Values of a Kind person
Empathy: They put themselves in other people's shoes to truly understand how they feel.
Compassion: They feel a deep care for the welfare of others and want to help ease their pain.
Generosity: They share their time, energy, and resources freely without expecting anything back.
Respect: They honor personal boundaries, listen closely, and treat everyone with basic dignity—even during arguments.
Authenticity: They are sincere and honest, choosing words that respect truth while avoiding cruelty.
Gentleness: They speak and act with care, avoiding harsh judgments or malicious sarcasm.
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